I thought I would share some articles, that I have channelled from spirit, and are on facebook for those that do not use it, I thought I would share here with you, I hope you like them xxx
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18th May 2011
Just thought i would sit and write a little feeling the urge for some reason, I have been asking Godfrey to show me the next steps i need to take, where i need to go and what i need to do, so many ideas being given to me, things that dont make alot of sense right now, but thats ok, its all snippets of the bigger picture ……………………
So what should we do when we cant see the bigger picture? Godfrey says to feel and sense your way through that time, to pay attention to ideas that pop in your mind that come from no where, keep a diary or a note book of what you are getting, writing it down will make it real. He says that we should all have a book where we write our hopes, dreams and aspirations in it, and to read it often, putting dates on them, then he says the next phase is to actually start to look at how we can make them a reality, he says that nothing is that far out of our reach, but some of us just want it or expect it to fall into our laps. He says we need a plan, a plan of action, he says the saying rome wasnt built in a day is so true, first we have the idea of what we want to do, or what we want to get, he sasy this is abotu financial, work, emotional spiritual life, the thoughts are then written down, and we need to then do our homework, he says we need to put a plan together, set little targets and goals in order to then achieve that bigger picture. He says its about being in the right place at the right time too, so its important to take action too, how many of you are desperate for love, but then dont get out, dont socialise, and shy away from a dating site, we have to be open, and we have to step out of our comfort zones, with work, what do we need to learn, how can we better ourselves, knock on doors, and even if they dont come to fruition the first time, keep knocking on them, eventually a door will open for you, if it hasnt, look at why, did you have the right crudentias, is there something more they are looking for? he says go away, with where it failed, and set it right, whether it is learning or developing skills then try again, he says with finances, we want to buy something, we want to save for something, then we waste money on things we dont need, takeaways, those nice shoes, having your nails done, he says cut down on such luxuries we have to make sacrifices.
Take the journey one step at a time, there is no need to rush, enjoy the path your own, set yourself some targets and goals, get writing your dreams, see them happening, think as positive as you can, if you do not beliee you can do something, then no one else will, you have to believe your worthy of the best love in the world, your worthy of getting that ggreat job, starting a business, and being financially successful, he says the time is right to put our dreams into reality
Godfrey is singing a song "happy talking talking" have a listen and look at the words, this is what the whole nite is about i feel http://youtu.be/291ET6Py6H8
lyrics
Happy talkin’, talkin Happy talk
Talk about things you’d like to do
You’ve got to have a dream
If you don’t have a dream
How you gonna have a dream come true
Talk about the moon floating in the sky
Looking like a lily on a lake
Talk about the bird learning how to fly
Making all the music he can make
Happy talkin’ talkin Happy talk
Talk about things you’d like to do
You’ve got to have a dream
If you don’t have a dream
How you gonna have a dream come true
Let’s talk about the star looking like a toy
Peeking through the branches of a tree
Talk about the girl talk about the boy
Counting all the ripples on the sea
Happy talkin’ talkin Happy talk
Talk about things you’d like to do
You’ve got to have a dream
If you don’t have a dream
How you gonna make a dream come true
Talk about the boy saying to the girl
Golly baby I’m a lucky cus
Talk about the girl saying to the boy
You and me are lucky to be us
Happy talkin’ talkin Happy talk
Talk about things you’d like to do
You’ve got to have a dream
If you don’t have a dream
How you gonna make a dream come true
And if you don’t talk happy
And you never have a dream
Then you’ll never have a dream come true
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9th March 2011
Sitting here this morning, i started to be told by my new guide Godfrey there are things that we all need to remember……………………………….
Life is not a garden of roses, to keep the roses blossoming each and every year we need to look after the rose, we need to feed it, nourish it, prune it, place manure around it, give it time, and put our own effots in to make sure it does keep thriving, how many of us want things in our lives, but then do not put that work into it, and then complain when it fails, whether it is a relationship, our careers, finances, health, we need to put the work in to make sure these things blossom and grow, these things will not happen, by sitting and watching and hoping. there will be storms, that batter us, there will be weeds that grow around us, that we need to pull out, we need to make time, to look after our own wants and needs.
when life is hard, we can dwell feel sorry for ourselves and that is ok for a time, but when feeling like this to also think about others, to think about people who are most likely having a terrible time too, people who are losing there homes, losing there family, jobs, people that are dying, or have lost a loved one, to remember that 9 times out of ten there is someone worse off than ourselves. How many times have we hung on to the past and wont allow ourselves to move forwards, especially when it comes to relationships and breaking up what are we so scared of, why are we will to hold on to something that didnt work, are we scared of fallinng in love, and being hurt again? we all want that happy ending, again life is not a bed of roses, we need to experience and learn from our painful experiences to appreciate when the right person comes along, and if we do keep experiencing the same things, time to take a check back on what has happened what patterns and behaviouss do we need to change to bring the right person to us that will make us happy, if your scared of being hurt, and let down, if you have emoitonal barriers around you, if your hung up on a past relationship, this is what you will attract, so let go and love yourself focus on the positive things you want out of a relationship and that person will come to you, if you dont you will attract the people that have the same issues as you making the way for unhappy experiences.
are you realy listenning to the words being told to you? so many times we hear people, but we dont actually take things in, we dont fully understand or grasp certain concepts in our lives, we hear it and we carry on, we need to open our ears a little more, pay attention to what is being given to us, and then use it for the higest good of others.
so many people hurting and in pain right now, words can not describe the anguish that these people are feeling, when you know someone is going through a tough time,give a little to help that person, be it a smile, a phone call, an email a visit, let that person, know how much you care you will make a difference.
Decide what it is that you want to do in your life, the biggest problem can be actually making a decision, we all want to make sure we make the right one, sometimes though we need to make the wrong one to then learn and appreciate the right one when that chance comes along again.
remember to make sure you look after you, how can you be of any help to anyone if your not looking after yourselves, remember that you deserve the best in life, and do n ot be prepared to accept anything less than that, love yourselves totally and completely, for it is when you do so, that you are able to recieve the same in return.
smile and the world will smile back at you, ride the waves of life, hang on through the tough times, the waters will calm again, be still, listen, hear what your inner voice is telling you and most of all be true to yourself, there is enough room in this world for everyone, no one needs to step on anyone else to get to where they want to be, remember the rose, look after it, help it to blossom, if you do this, so many wonderous things will fall in your lap, because you care, because you have worked hard, because you have fed and nutured.
take time and give thanks to the powers that be, to each other, support and love each other, and be happy, you can make a difference to your own lives, you can either let lifes challenges beat you down, or you can learn, you can rise abiove it, and you can change it, but most of all you have to do it, you have to make the changes, it can be scary, but you have more control in all situations than you think, take yourself out of negative situations, bring positive situations, and positive people in your life, change is a good thing…………………… go for it xxxxxxx
********************************************************************************************relationships that break up
Thinking a lot about this as so many people are going through or have recently been through this, its a hard time for these people, I remember well when my marriage ended after 14 years, thinking your on the right track, then bang, they walk out the door, leaving this trail of heart ache and devastation not only to you, but to family and friends, everyone is affected when this happens. I remember times of being suicidal, to the point where I had a councillor come to my home each week, feeling like no one else will make you happy, the fears that come with starting that new journey are both daunting and scary and if your life me and have children, there are those questions, will they like my children, will they love my children, will my children like and love that person so many things running around ones head, not wanting to move on, hoping and praying they come back, begging for them to come back, willing to change as a person to get that person back……………………………..
So where do we start when this happens, first thing I learnt was I had to look at why, was I really happy with him anyway……………. no, was the relationship the best in the world…………………….. no, what was it that I was so scared of, what was I trying to hold on too, well sometimes something is better than nothing, there is a comfort zone, knowing who you are with, knowing where you stand even when your not totally happy its better than the alternative.
the amount of people that I have asking for readings asking if they will come back, wont find anyone else, that’s it now no more, cant do this again, why has this happened, lots and lots of questions running around ones head, answers needed to help.
If there is one thing I have learnt, that people come in our lives for a reason, sometimes it is to help each other, sometimes to experience love, sometimes to just learn lessons, no matter what there is always something good to take from the relationship and equally there is something to learn from it. the way I got through my divorce was to really look at the whole thing, I was never truly happy, but not happy to leave myself, so really he did me a favour, at the time though had anyone said that I could not have even comprehended that to be the case, I needed to come to that conclusion myself. so then I looked at what I could learn, ok so I have learnt to not just go into a relationship because I care, because they make me feel good at that time, I have learnt that I will only accept the best, and not take second best, I have learnt, that if a relationship ends, that’s how it is, its meant to be, what is more important is the healing phase, finding yourself again like I had too, no point trying to force someone to be with you, is that really going to make a good happy relationship later………………. I think not
we cant change the past, but we can the future, so what can we bring forward into a new relationship, simply ourselves, its not good carrying all those scars, holding on to what other people have done to you in the past, and no relationship will work when you do that, again its about healing, one persons loss is another ones gain.
look at what your scared of, what is so scary about a new relationship, for me it was about someone accepting and loving me for me, the rejection dating can bring etc, there is that saying feel the fear and do it anyway. Self love is important, if you don’t love you, how can someone else truly love you.
I guess what I am trying to say is, if I can get over a 14 year marriage, stay friends with him, and go on my own journey, and find love again, and its not a love like I had in the past, it is much better than that, the relationship is different and stronger, I am happier now than I have been in my whole life, so when I look back was it really so wrong my ex husband left me for someone else?? Hell no she got my left over’s where as I started a new life lolol
what will be will be, if it was a mistake that person will come back to you, let them come back though, don’t put your life on hold, get out there, heal, be happy, and if that person doesn’t come back, trust me and believe me when I say to you, that you will find a greater love, and happiness than what you thought you could ever experience. i gave myself a time limit, when that clock struck midnight on new years eve, that was it for me, no more tears, no more begging, no more nothing it was going to be about me and my children, taking control is important too x
few things to ponder on
is he/ she really giving you what you want and need?
was the relationship really a happy one?
what are you actuall missing by not being in the relationship?
what are you truly scared of now?
what have you learnt from this relationship, that you can take forward in a positive way in a new relationship?
are you ready for a new relationship?
if so what are you doing about it, sitting at home waiting wont make it happen you have to work at it, getting out and about, being on line dating sites etc?
is there a pattern to your relationships that keep failing, is it the type of person? is there something you have not healed from?
look at what you really want need and desreve
is that person ticking all the boxes?
are you paying attention to warning signs but ignoring them?
have you forgiven the people that have hurt you in the past so that you can truly move on?
do you love yourself enough, to be able to let another person love you?
Well that is my ramble for today; I hope it helps even if it is just one person
Lots of love, and healing to all those going through a hard time right now xx